Remember, there's no set manual for sex, so these suggestions are for inspiration rather than step-by-step instruction.
Order her to stand still as you carefully peel off her clothing
piece by piece. Make each motion slow and deliberate as you gently
remove her high heels and unbutton her shirt buttons one by one. As you
undress her, lightly kiss or caress each part of her body as it's
revealed. Imagine you're unwrapping a precious gift. Comment on how
gorgeous her body is. Stand back and admire it as it's slowly revealed
to you. Admire her like a piece of art. Keep your own clothes on for an
added touch of erotic control, or keep her standing there while you
undress for her. And watch the magic unfold.
The nipple effect :
Keep the touch light. Start with just your breath: hot ("haa") or
cool ("whoo"). Then use your fingers to trace around the areola and
over the bud, touching the tip with soft little strokes. Take. Your.
Time. You need to develop a sense of worshipping the breast, completely
focusing on the touch and feel. Gradually move on to stimulating her
with light touches of the tongue.
Create a contrast by taking the
whole nipple in your mouth and experiment with swirling tongue movements
around the bud. If you feel she'd respond to more intense stimulation
go for it, including playing with the border of pleasure and pain, but
always with a sense of teasing
Finger tips :
Work your fingers in a spiral-like screwing motion as you move in
and out of her. Do it slowly to get to know which areas are particularly
pleasurable for her. Slow hand motions give her an exquisite building
sensation that's almost unbearable. Alternatively, do it harder and
faster for a more intense sensation.
Once you've got a good move going with fingers, tongue or penis and
she's clearly into it, keep that going without changing the pace, rhythm
or intensity. Now, while the genital stimulation remains constant,
build the pressure elsewhere on her body. It could be a kiss that gets
more and more intense. It could be a nuzzle to the neck that turns into
some vampire-like love-biting. It could be a stroking of the back that
goes from pads of fingers to nails. It could be a stroking of her anus
with your thumb that gets firmer and firmer until you're inside. Or a
caressing of her bum that turns into a grip. Get to know what parts of
her body respond to intense sensation through general foreplay
activities. When you're sure it's something she likes, apply when she's